Not every couple in Michigan can agree on how to divide time with their children after a separation. When this happens, the court steps in to make the decision. For a parent already dealing with conflict and stress, the thought of a stranger getting the final say on how much time you will get to spend with your child can be terrifying. How will the court even make this decision?
At Lucido & Manzella, P.C., we have served parents like you for over 25 years. While this process feels uncertain, Michigan courts follow clear legal principles designed to protect children when determining parenting time.
Here’s what you need to know about how Michigan courts make parenting time decisions:
Understanding how courts think can reduce fear and help you feel more prepared for what comes next.
In Michigan, judges don’t decide parenting time based on which parent “deserves” more time or who was “right” or “wrong” in the divorce. Instead, they follow the best interests of the child standard, which involves examining a series of factors that focus squarely on a child’s needs, safety, and well-being.
This standard exists because courts recognize that parenting time decisions can have a lasting impact on a child’s emotional, social, and educational development. By using a child-centered framework, the court can create arrangements that support stability, healthy relationships with both parents, and overall growth.
When judges decide parenting time in Michigan, they consider a variety of factors, but some carry more weight depending on your child’s age, needs, and family situation.
Here are some factors the courts often prioritize:
A child’s developmental stage is one of the most important factors in determining parenting time. Courts recognize that children at different ages have very different needs, and schedules are designed to support healthy emotional and social growth.
Another critical factor is a parent’s past behavior. The court will consider any evidence of a parent’s history of abuse, neglect, criminal history, or substance abuse when determining parenting time. If one parent has a history of violence or addiction, the court may limit their parenting time to protect the safety and well-being of the child.
On the other hand, if a parent has been actively involved in their child’s life and shown consistent care and support, it can work in their favor during parenting time proceedings. Proving a positive track record as a responsible parent can demonstrate to the court that they have the child’s best interest at heart.
Courts also weigh which parent can provide a stable, predictable environment. Stability is crucial for a child’s sense of security and can reduce stress during a family transition.
Judges will look at:
A parent who can provide a calm, organized home life is often viewed more favorably because children thrive when they know what to expect each day.
Yes. Michigan courts have a strong preference for maintaining meaningful relationships with both parents whenever it is safe and appropriate. Parenting time decisions are not about replacing one parent with another. Instead, the goal is to create a workable structure that supports the child long-term, helping them benefit from the love and guidance of both parents.
When the court makes parenting time decisions, the process can be stressful. An experienced attorney can make a significant difference by:
Having guidance through this process can reduce anxiety and help you focus on your child’s well-being rather than procedural uncertainty.
Having the court step in to decide how much time you spend with your child can be upsetting. It’s natural to feel anxious, frustrated, or even powerless when a stranger is making decisions about your family life. But you don’t have to face this alone.
If you’re worried about parenting time and want guidance you can trust, contact Lucido & Manzella today. We will work with you to keep your child’s best interests at the heart of every decision and support you through this challenging process.
We offer a free initial consultation so you will get an opportunity to meet us, and we will have an opportunity to learn more about your legal issue.